I am not a person who usually come for people's advices. I cannot remember for how long I have not sought advices from people. You may think I am conservative. But I like resolving problems by myself. If my solutions work, then I do good job. If they dont, then I will start again and try to find out where I get it wrong. However, I sometimes really really get stuck, and that's when I come to my mother for advices. For me, she is not only the person who gives birth to me but also my best friend who is always by my side whenever I need her. A few years ago, I was just so delicate that I easily fell down and gave up when people had no appreciation for what I had done or when they laughed at me and talk bad behind my back. But my Mom's advice changed my life: " People's rumors cant bring you down if you dont want they to. Are they going to help you when you are in trouble??? No!!! So why do you have to put your mind on those trash? If you dont love yourself, then no one can love you!!!"
Because I have high appreciation for self-reliance, I hardly give my advices to people. If they have problems and they need my help, they have to come up with their solutions first, then I will give them a hand to their solutions. If they need someone to talk to, I will sit by them and listen to them until they feel relieve. But plz dont ask for my advices because I dont have any advices for them. It's not me but themself who know exactly what they really need.
If I tell my parents that they are the ones I love the most, they know I am telling them a white lie. But if I say "I love you as much as I love myself", then they will take it as "I love you the best!!!"
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